Don’t Ask, Assess Yourself “ Am I Really Looking Good ? ”
Am I really looking good?
It is sometimes better to ask someone to evaluate your dressing, such as hairstyle, footwear, outfits and other fashion accessories but the thing which irritate us are the immoral remarks. These comments can effect harshly and can shatter our self-confidence into pieces. Thus, we end up being spoiling our personality. So what’s best is to stop asking others, and, asses yourself on mirror and give grades by your own motive, as we all usually do in shopping, like, going in to the change room, and looking our self in to the mirror while buying new clothes, checking, are they looking good on me or not.
Don’t ask, assess yourself “Am I really looking good ?”:
- Listen others but do your own:
Most of us wears the idea of others, commonly menswear dressing philosophies of girlfriends, 67% women admitted to controlling their partner style. I am not trying to say that you should neglect other’s suggestion and wear only what you like, but, you should have a good say in your selection. Because anything that satisfies you boost your confidence level and helps you look good.
See, we are not saying that you need to dress different from others, go on with the trend of your surroundings and wear anything but with self-reliance, you can ask people about your dressing, but only if it satisfies you.
- What suits you the best?
In casual dressing we mostly never hear unwanted or contrasting remarks, whereas we are having these malevolent observations in formal and occasional wearing. So don’t be terrified just assess yourself by your own means, make your own standards of what suits you, the type of clothes which fits on your body silhouette and skin tone.
It is very simple to calculate the dressing style of yourself. Look into the mirror which shows you your complete body from feet to hair, and check whether or not you are feeling confident? If the answer is above 85%, then you can go on with whatever you like, but if less, then you have to reconsider, as reflected view can’t lie.
New fashion trend or we can say when we try something new, people give unusual ratings, sometimes in favor and otherwise hurting. But ignore them and do as you like, do try new trends and check yourself out.
Once in a winter when I tried my new single breasted classic black color overcoat, I was getting comments like “Are you really OK?”, but the point is, it satisfied me, and make me felt “I am looking good”.
- Don’t be afraid:
While official or informal dressing is something very different from occasional dressing. We need to be very choosy while selecting clothes for formal and informal events. We should concern some limits, for instance we can’t wear urban fashion while going towards wedding, can we?
Asking others about worn accessories sometime lead us to conclusions like “We will not wear it again”. Some peoples like wearing classic Casio digital watch while some peoples wear icon brand mega necklace, depending upon personal choice. Receive remarks as it is the part of life, but not quit what you like to wear. Accessories you wear projects your feeling.
- Listen to your heart:
This whole article was about the daily comments which we get when we wear something different or about individual looking. The main purpose which tried to describe in above discussion was to hear comments but do not change your style, and wear whatever you like, but in reference to the surrounding and the nature of the event.