Importance of good behavior:
“Realizing that our actions, feelings and behavior are the result of our own images and beliefs gives us the level that psychology has always needed for changing personality.” ~ Maxwell Maltz
With the changing times and beliefs, a major change that has come into action is altering behaviors. Yes there was a time when rude behaviors and rough and tough styles were seen as the masculinity of a man; but, as the trends changes these rough attitudes and crude styles have really become a reason of dislike and downfall. Yes! You will be surprised to know this but it is the real picture of our times. Gone are the old days when men had the leverage of playing bad without any criticism and hatred. Startled, aren’t you? Don’t be! Read further to know more about how important behavior is for a good personality.
How important behavior is for a good personality?
We live in a time where things come and go, people play and leave but one thing that is always remembered by the world is your behavior. These trends have been changing at a fast, really fast pace. One should really be careful enough to act politely because it is the virtue of men that is demanded by world at large. Although maintaining nice behavior is a real necessary job for all of us but it has become a troublesome affair lately. The reason behind that is with social and economic pressure on men, men are mentally more disturbed and frustrated than ever. Being a man is a tough job in this era where there are so many concerns over our heads. These factors are really contributing to the bad behaviors of people especially men at large.
It is really very depressing to know that there are more suicide rates, more divorces and more criminal activities than ever in our society mainly because of worldly pressures. Sad but true. And the worst of all a man’s life is kept under pressure since the time he is born. When he starts his school, he is expected to work hard to get good grades for a better career. The childhood starts from the quest of good grades, then making careers and then raising family and it goes on to the day you die. Now my question to the world at large is how can you expect a person to be humble and polite? The world has NO answers and still every one demands for a good and polite behavior.
So no matter what the circumstances may be you don’t have to lose your behavior goal because this is the point where your personality is judged and perceived. Even we men cannot tolerate rude men on the other side? Can we? So it is really important to alter your behaviors if you want to establish a good personality of yours.
Imagine yourself at an office, can a bad behavior will ever let you go up? Never ever! Similarly if we talk about personal life even our blood relations like our children will never ever let us being rude. And if we have bad behavior this is what we will be telling to the children of ours. And do we really want our children with bad behaviors? See, your behavior is your personality. A rude person is shown rude by his personality even if he has never been rude to you. Whereas a polite and nice person is reflected with his nice personality. So from this day on if you want a nice personality then say NO to bad behaviors.